Success
is in your hands, attract it
by
Priya Deelchand
Success means different
things to different individuals. It comes in many different forms and the idea
of being successful for one person might not be the same as for another person.
In fact, there are as many definitions of success as there are people on this
planet. For instance, if you are a businessman, success may mean being among
the top 10 companies in your industry and if you are a student, success may
mean getting distinctions and coming first in your exams. According to Earl
Nightingale, "Success is the progressive realization of a worthy
ideal." It is therefore very important for each one of us to define
clearly what success means to us.
If we want to be successful
in our life, then the very first thing we should do is to take the time to
decide exactly what success means to us. Clarity is the first step for
deliberately attracting the success we desire in our life. Success is a
multifaceted personal concept. By defining what the idea of success represents
to us and by taking the time to write it down, we will automatically move our
life in that direction. Robert Collier was right when he said "The great
successful men of the world have used their imagination. They think ahead and
create their mental picture in all its details, filling in here, adding a
little there, altering this a bit and that a bit, but steadily building -
steadily building."
Let us say that success to
us means becoming an outstanding manager. Most of the time, many people find it
very difficult to know exactly what they want as an outstanding manager. One of
the best ways to become clear is to make a list of things that we do not want
as an outstanding manager. The more things we put in our list, the clearer we
become. We do not have to focus on what we do not want to attract but just
examine briefly what we do not want. Once we have made a list of around 40 to
50 things that we do not like, we proceed by making the list of things that we
do want as an ideal manager. The things that we want are the exact opposite of
the things that we do not want. For example, I do not want to be a manager who
is not respected by my team will be replaced by I want to be a manager who is
highly respected by my team. I do not want to take wrong decisions will be
replaced by I always take the right decisions in all situations.
The second step to
deliberately attract success is to raise our vibration. We must always bear in
mind that we do not get what we want but we get what we vibrate. We must therefore
become a "vibrational match" to what we want in order to attract what
we truly desire. One way to raise our vibration is to act as if we are already
successful and start experiencing how we would be feeling if we had already
achieved the success we wanted, how joyful we would feel and how happy and
excited we would be as a result of achieving the success we desire. We can also
use affirmations or use phrases like "I am very successful now." to
raise our vibration to attract the success we desire in our life. We can also
use visualization and see ourselves already experiencing the success we want.
The third step for
deliberate attraction is to allow success to manifest in our life. Allowing is
the absence of doubt and fear. If we have a strong desire to be successful but
at the same time, we have strong doubts, we will never be able to attract what
we want because we will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If, on the
other hand, we have a strong desire and some doubts, we will attract success,
but it will take a little longer. If we want to rapidly manifest success, we
have to have a strong desire with no doubt at all.
We all deserve to be
successful in life and whatever dreams we have, we all have the potential to
achieve them as absolutely nothing is impossible. We just have to follow the
great advice of Walt Disney, who rightly said, "If you can dream it, you
can do it."
Priya Deelchand is the founder and Managing Director of
Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. Since December 2008, Priya has been working
as a Life and Corporate Coach with
clients in USA and
Europe providing guidance on
personal and professional development
and helping them
maximise their potentials to achieve growth and success. Priya also
conducts several Workshops in Mauritius on leadership, peak performance, emotional intelligence, success principles, self-esteem
and motivation for corporate and individual clients.
She holds a Master in Management from L'Ecole Supérieure
de Commerce de Toulouse (Toulouse Business School), France and an Undergraduate
degree in Economics from Université des Sciences Sociales de Toulouse, France.
Priya is also a Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner from The Law of
Attraction Training Center, USA and a registered MQA Trainer in the field of
Management.
For more information about workshops and coaching
sessions, contact Success Strategies Consultants Ltd on +230 696 9998 or +230 758 0695
http//www.successstrategiesconsultants.com
